Mating and Relating
Where curiosity meets conversation! Mating and Relating is bringing the real, the taboo and the relatable to the table in love, sex and relationships!
I’m Bri and my mission for the M&R Podcast is to be a safe space to explore the nuances of relationships and sex. We are connective beings meant to nourish and embrace our erotic nature with ourselves and with others. Whether platonic, romantic, monogamy, multi-gamy or somewhere in between, we all desire to live and feel fully expressed, safely loved and well f*cked; specifically in the ways that nurture and expand our individual versions of self and intimacy.
Each week I’ll aim to normalize the convo and refine the stigmas around sex and love through candid chats, personal experiences, educated segments and empowering tidbits to show you just how relatable your desires and situations actually are!
Invite your friends, your partner, your mother or your platonic lovers and join the convo everyone is begging to have more of!
Mating and Relating
6 Ways To Hit The Spot Pt.1
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Vulva owners! Did you know you’ve got 6 Pleasure Points located within your beautiful majestic pussies? Yeah I just said that. Well, let me introduce you to them and how to play your way to the most conscious & intense orgasms of your adult life.
In this two part series I'm breaking down the 6 Pleasure Points of all my Vulva owners out there. Part One I’m diving into just the C-spot, because there is so much that many of us don’t know about this beauty and it’s one of our most famous erogenous zones, so I want to take some time with it and help us all to become a little more “Clitorate”
Yes you have a vagina, if you have a Vulva, but the Vulva is the name for the external parts of female genitalia. The vagina is internal and it’s the tube connecting the vulva and the cervix.
Externally you’ve got, your Labia Majora, Labia Minora, Clitoral Hood, Glans Clitoris, Urethral Opening, Vulva Vestibule, opening of the Skene’s Gland(which secrete fluids that help with lubrication during intercourse and sexual arousal they are also may be the source of female ejaculation), Harts line, Vaginal Opening, Hymen, Perineum and Anus
The the Glans Clitoris aka our Clit and for this episodes purpose, our C-spot, is part of the Vulva. But the Clitoris Network, yes network, extends inward along and throughout the Vagina.
Above the Glans Clitoris is the Clitoral Hood which is formed by the two sides of the connecting Labia Minora. The clitoral body goes upward into your pelvis and is attached by ligaments to your pubic bone. From the Clitoral Body the Clitoris splits to form the paired crura and the Vestibular bulbs; which the bulbs extend through and behind the labia, making their way pass the urethra, vaginal canal and then towards the anus. It literally looks like a ball sack.
Now onto the fun stuff! Stimulating the C-Spot -- which can happen in many ways. You can use fingers or your palm; using your palm to stimulate your clit while using your fingers to massage the vaginal opening is amazing or the face of your knuckles.
You can use toys; bullets, vibrating wands, clitoral suckers, dongs with multiple textures; silicone, glass, steal, ridged or smooth. They all give different sensations. And don’t forget to use Lube. Don’t be afraid of lube. Lube is our friend. Lube helps with a fuller feeling of sensation.
You can go for other body parts like if you’re playing with someone, you’ve got some nice oral action, the tongue we love that. And if you’re pleasing with some finger action, we want nice, circular motion, slow-mo style. We want full tongue, and I’m gonna add in soft tongue. Yes the tip of the tongue is fine but you’re not trying to fight my clitoris. We’re not in an argument. We’re having great conversation and great conversation leads to great sex.
Yes so again many many ways to stimulate the C-spot and having clitoral orgasms are amazing. Some of my favorite orgasms have been while receiving oral and getting fingered at the same time or using a c-spot specific stimulator and having intercourse at the same time because I was stimulating my entire or at least almost entire clitoris.
I’d like to encourage you to explore yourself. Sit in front of a mirror and check yourself out or grab friend or bring your partner in and have them explore as you walk them through the majestic network of your clitoris.
It’s all about knowing your body and learning what feels good so you can prioritize your pleasure in the ways that work for you and encourage your playmates to stimulate you in the ways that bring you to orgasm.
This is not just for my vulva owners. Knowledge is power, so please share this Episode with a friend, your mom, your S.O. and definitely a non-vulva owne