Mating and Relating
Where curiosity meets conversation! Mating and Relating is bringing the real, the taboo and the relatable to the table in love, sex and relationships!
I’m Bri and my mission for the M&R Podcast is to be a safe space to explore the nuances of relationships and sex. We are connective beings meant to nourish and embrace our erotic nature with ourselves and with others. Whether platonic, romantic, monogamy, multi-gamy or somewhere in between, we all desire to live and feel fully expressed, safely loved and well f*cked; specifically in the ways that nurture and expand our individual versions of self and intimacy.
Each week I’ll aim to normalize the convo and refine the stigmas around sex and love through candid chats, personal experiences, educated segments and empowering tidbits to show you just how relatable your desires and situations actually are!
Invite your friends, your partner, your mother or your platonic lovers and join the convo everyone is begging to have more of!
Mating and Relating
Let's Talk Butt Stuff
Ask Bri! Got a question? Send it over and listen out for a response during the following episode!
Let’s talk Butt Stuff 🍑
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We’re covering ground rules, why anal play can be amazing & how to tell if you’re ready to open the back door.
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Ground Rules✨
- Consent is of the utmost importance! #NoMeansNo so don’t pressure!
- Lube is a necessity
- Clean before & after you play
- Don’t worry about the “poop thing.” You’re a mature adult. 😉
- Go SLOW. Start with the tongue, finger/s, plugs & other toys. (Good quality)
- Communicate before, during & after.
- Did I mention LUBE is a NECESSITY?
- Breath, Relax & Enjoy
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Why Anal Play? ✨
- Anyone with a butthole can enjoy!
- The external anus aka the anal verge and the the external sphincter are some of the most sensitive areas of the human body.
- The internal anus sphincter creates pleasure from the pressure and fullness which also stimulates the prostrate and two hot spots (G spot & O spot)
- You can reach the clitoris & root of the penis from inside
- Anal Orgasms are some of the most full-feeling orgasms you can have
- You can play alone or with a partner.
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You may be ready to try Anal play if...✨
- You have expressed genuine interest in it.
- You have discussed it with your partner
- You have purchased anal play toys (plugs, beads, small dongs, prostate massagers etc)
- You are looking to add another layer of pleasure to your existing sex life
- You want to have intercourse while on your period
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Anal play is meant to be pleasurable, just like any other types of play. I always encourage doing your own research and finding which toys & lube would work best for your body. Remember to be respectful and to communicate if you are playing with someone. If solo, be mindful of your limits and don’t rush! Also...LUBE! 😉🍑